May I have your attention please?

This post is addressed to my followers and to all bloggers as well and I will be as brief as possible. To whom you are blogging and why you’re hitting the publish button? Why I’m asking this question? Because I believe that logically you are blogging for others to read not for you to store your information. Therefore, you should […]

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Thank you for the readers mostly!

Thank you for all the people that finds my blog so interesting to follow. Mostly, I thank the readers, those who care about what I have to say even if they disagree, even if it’s not one of their top subjects but they do read! Because believe me, if I like your post, it means I have read each word of it! Except when you decide to like all my posts in less than a minute, even though it’s kind, but then I know that you didn’t read so I will just return you the favor! One of the things I dislike, we are here on “WordPress” not Facebook! But I also believe in reciprocity and mutual respect. If you follow me so I can just follow you back, which I usually do, I will follow you and read your contents closely and when I have something to say, I will interact. But at certain point, when my posts are invisible to you, then it will be mutual. Thank you all and hope you are enjoying my writings and my blog 🙂 H.A – February 12th 2019

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Mutual Relationships

All relationships should be mutual…otherwise just retreat. Some people just like to receive care / admiration / respect / even simple greetings without the intention of giving them back, or to simply be kind enough to treat you the same way or even a bit close. You must know that these people seek fans and followers not acquaintances, if you’re a fan or follower then no problem, it’s your call and your life and no harm of that. But many people, including me, are unable to follow…they believe in mutual respect and trust…they believe in reciprocation so they just retreat and keep their distance without judging or criticizing. Everybody is free to act as they want as we are free to react the way it suits us as well. I mean unless you’re one of my idols in life or some very big star (which I hardly care), I’m not seeking to be your follower or fan, I’m trying to build a relationship, create a bond and if it’s not mutual, I just retreat silently. Written in December 2018  

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Casual Conversation

Friend: look at me; is there something wrong with me? Why …doesn’t care? Doesn’t love me! Am I that bad?Me: what’s wrong with God?Friend: what’s wrong with God? God is perfect! What are you saying! Me: Still, there are millions and maybe more that attack God, not only do not love him, you seem surprised!Friend: yes yes I know…just confused! Me: we call them atheists and they are freeFriend: yes right but what do you mean! Why you’re mentioning God and atheists?Me: I mean you can be more than perfect but you can’t force love and admiration! It’s irrelevant! Friend: Even if I made lot of efforts and didn’t give up at all!?Me: well it’s like taking someone to the best steak house in town but they are Vegetarians! Or Vegans…Eternal SilenceMe: what about those who are chasing you and you’re ignoring them? Why you don’t give them a chance? What’s wrong with them?Friend: I’m not interested! They mean nothing to me!Me: Really? You got your answer thenFriend: damn you’re so rude!Me: Yes, truth is rude dear but I love itFriend: I don’t! But I do appreciate your honesty so much! Now I have many things to re-consider even if I will not admit Me: it’s enough to admit to yourself….fair enough… Written in November 2018

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2018 Resolutions and Lessons!

2018 is over; It was mostly and generally a dull year full of disappointments, sad events, loss of great people and economic crisis that led many to lose their jobs and a certain level of living. Despite, we always learn and improve: Personally, I was convinced that exercise and workout should be a habit, a life style and so it was. I lost 34 pounds and maintaining my weight perfectly. I learned to enjoy my own company and to embrace quality time with myself. I was convinced that some people have a short role in your life, some have only one scene, some just pass by in the background of your life events…when you know that, you just let go and it’s not nonchalance or rudeness, it’s just accepting the facts and moving on. I was convinced that marriage is the worst institution ever and society is so fucked up struggling to maintain a fake image and many innocent creatures are paying a huge price. I was sad to realize that the woman in my country is not respected as they are claiming especially as a mother and partner; even her children won’t stand for her when she needs them, those children that she gave them her all and her life… I witnessed how Lebanese society is retarded, judgmental and racist apart from a small percentage of very well educated and respectful people that are lost among these garbage and […]

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When They Ignore You

When someone ignores you completely or partly, please believes them! It’s either they don’t care, or they have other priorities because nowadays in 2017 (nearly 2018) people are literally more addicted to their cell phones than drugs, they hold their phones while eating, partying, sleeping, swimming…having sex maybe, dying…and they rather lose their hands and their lives then put their phones down from their hands or keep it out of their sight! So can you imagine? The entire world between their hands, all notifications and messages, all mediums to connect to other people with voice, message, video..…and then, no time to reply? So please believe people when they ignore you and move on. Written in October 2017

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