Mutual Connection

Published previously on September 3rd 2018 Yes the world population is 7.6 billion but good luck in finding a mutual connection and chemistry with just one person! Some people live and die without knowing this feeling.you will meet hundreds and thousands of people, yes! But you are lucky if you could find your home in someone’s eyesYou are lucky if […]

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Mutual Relationships

All relationships should be mutual…otherwise just retreat. Some people just like to receive care / admiration / respect / even simple greetings without the intention of giving them back, or to simply be kind enough to treat you the same way or even a bit close. You must know that these people seek fans and followers not acquaintances, if you’re a fan or follower then no problem, it’s your call and your life and no harm of that. But many people, including me, are unable to follow…they believe in mutual respect and trust…they believe in reciprocation so they just retreat and keep their distance without judging or criticizing. Everybody is free to act as they want as we are free to react the way it suits us as well. I mean unless you’re one of my idols in life or some very big star (which I hardly care), I’m not seeking to be your follower or fan, I’m trying to build a relationship, create a bond and if it’s not mutual, I just retreat silently. Written in December 2018  

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Casual Conversation

Friend: look at me; is there something wrong with me? Why …doesn’t care? Doesn’t love me! Am I that bad?Me: what’s wrong with God?Friend: what’s wrong with God? God is perfect! What are you saying! Me: Still, there are millions and maybe more that attack God, not only do not love him, you seem surprised!Friend: yes yes I know…just confused! Me: we call them atheists and they are freeFriend: yes right but what do you mean! Why you’re mentioning God and atheists?Me: I mean you can be more than perfect but you can’t force love and admiration! It’s irrelevant! Friend: Even if I made lot of efforts and didn’t give up at all!?Me: well it’s like taking someone to the best steak house in town but they are Vegetarians! Or Vegans…Eternal SilenceMe: what about those who are chasing you and you’re ignoring them? Why you don’t give them a chance? What’s wrong with them?Friend: I’m not interested! They mean nothing to me!Me: Really? You got your answer thenFriend: damn you’re so rude!Me: Yes, truth is rude dear but I love itFriend: I don’t! But I do appreciate your honesty so much! Now I have many things to re-consider even if I will not admit Me: it’s enough to admit to yourself….fair enough… Written in November 2018

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When They Ignore You

When someone ignores you completely or partly, please believes them! It’s either they don’t care, or they have other priorities because nowadays in 2017 (nearly 2018) people are literally more addicted to their cell phones than drugs, they hold their phones while eating, partying, sleeping, swimming…having sex maybe, dying…and they rather lose their hands and their lives then put their phones down from their hands or keep it out of their sight! So can you imagine? The entire world between their hands, all notifications and messages, all mediums to connect to other people with voice, message, video..…and then, no time to reply? So please believe people when they ignore you and move on. Written in October 2017

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