Disclaimer: This post was written originally in Arabic and then translated into English.
If you understand Arabic, I recommend you read the Arabic version down below.
A common question that is always asked, as is a sentence we hear the entire time: Why is life unfair or is life unfair?
Although it is a broad and complicated subject, but I will focus on a very important aspect of it “people” who are the most important component of this life.
If there were no people, how would the world look? If we take humans out of life, what will be left?
Life and people walk together, they are not separated.
BUT, Life is not unfair, rather, what is unfair and unhealthy are the people who refuse to face their problems, and issues before they start to reflect on others, destroy and harm them.
Life is not unfair, but the reason for the injustice is the values people choose, which are destructive to them and others.
Whether lies, slander, abnormal jealousy, corruption, exploitation, violation, and arrivism, in addition to the pleasures we believe, are as precious as the entire world, not believing how temporary they are and to what extent, and their effects are devastating to a frightening degree, in the short and long terms as well.
Life is not unfair, but bad values are the ones that rule, “wrong” is generalized and viewed as a norm, and noble values have become an exception that is fiercely fought.
Don’t be surprised when you see the murderer free,
When you see the aggressor proud, the victim, the wounded, and the stabbed are subject to trial and accountability.
This is the result of the dominant values, the dominant people’s type, and the result of mental illnesses that each one of you refuses to face.
It also happens when values such as greed, avarice, and the deification of power and money are given absolute legitimacy and justification.
Moreover, as a result of giving manipulation the character of intelligence and backstabbing the character of strength and vigor.

Life is not unfair, and you should see how beautiful the places are where internally beautiful individuals and at peace with themselves are.
Look how beautiful the places are with simple people that do not have greed, hidden agendas, and insecurities.
Look how sweet life is where the existing values are justice, respect, altruism, and self-reconciliation.
Life is not unfair, on the contrary, life is very fair, whether in this life or the one after.
You will be surprised how fair it will be.
You will be surprised at harvest time because you are not even paying attention to what you are sowing

It is not necessary to believe in the existence of God to believe in Cause and Effect.
It is not necessary to believe in the afterlife and Judgment Day, but the simplest thing to believe is that you will reap what you sow.
The simplest thing to believe is that if you dig a pit for another man’s feet, neither you nor someone close to you will be safe from falling into it.
But the problem arises when you forget or deny that you dug it, and you even refuse to learn your lesson. This is when we have a problem.
It is a basic rule of life, live and let others live, help when you can, and if you cannot help, just get out of the way and do not hurt, do not create a monster that seeks revenge from the person in pain, because you put salt on their wounds.
You don’t cut someone and when they bleed, you ask them maliciously, what happened to you?
Or you play the victim by pretending you’re terrified of blood.

Don’t test some people and their ability to endure pain, or their degree of understanding, don’t bet or rely on their morals and decent education.
Because when their patience reaches an end, and they take a decision to “escalate”, they will go all the way, to the extent that they do not even care to return, or in what case they return, if we assume that they will ever return.
As for their decent education and morals, they will put what they learned aside and improvise for the sake of the occasion and you.
It is only a matter of time, don’t be so arrogant, because the cause’s effect is often delayed, but it always arrives.
Unfortunately, there are times when the effects fall on individuals who do not deserve it, but their only fault is being related to you, or a part of you. Their mistake is being in the lives of people who are sowing disgust and hatred, expecting to blossom love and good days.
And because you don’t want to learn a lesson except through getting knocked out.
You are afraid of what people will say, you are afraid of the opinion of this and that person, you are afraid that someone will be better than you according to some trivial and superficial standards, and you are afraid of everything except the result of your actions, except for justice, whether it is divine, karma, consequence or destiny, call it as you wish, but a simple piece of advice: do not ignore it.
Furthermore, I know that the advice doesn’t work with some levels of mental illnesses, not even a simple slap in the face works, but despite this, my advice is for free, and remember that a long time ago the advice was worth a camel.

هل الحياة ظالمة؟
سؤال دايماً بينسأل وجملة على طول منسمعها: ليش الحياة ظالمة أو هل الحياة ظالمة؟
موضوع متشعّب وكبير بس رح ركّز على ناحية كتير مهمة فيه وهيي
الناس” يلي هنّي أهم عنصر مكوّن ل هالحياة”
عم تتخايلوا هالدني بلا ناس؟ شو بيبقى من الحياة إذا شلنا منها الناس؟
.الحياة والناس ماشيين سوا ما بيفترقوا
بس الحياة مش ظالمة، الناس هيي الي ظالمة ومريضة وما بتواجه علاتها قبل ما تبلّش تعكسها ع غيرها وتدمّر وتؤذي كرمال ما تواجه حالها
،الحياة مش ظالمة بس سبب الظلم هيي القيم يلي الناس بتختارها وهالقيم مدمّرة ل الن و لغيرن
،سواء كذب، افتراء، غيرة مرضية، فساد، استغلال، تعدّي، وصولية
.بالاضافة ل ملذات مفكرينا هيي الدني كلّا بينما هيي موقتة ل درجة ما بتتخايلوها وآثارها مدمّرة لدرجة مخيفة وعالمدى المنظور وغير المنظور
.الحياة مش ظالمة، بس القيم السيئة هيي يلي حاكمة والغلط تعمّم وصارت القيم النبيلة استثناء بيتم محاربته بشراسة
بس تشوف القاتل حرّ، بس تشوف المعتدي عم يفتخر باعتدائه والضحية أو الجريح والمطعون صار بموقف المحاكمة والمساءلة، ما تستغرب، هيدي نتيجة القيم المسيطرة، نوعية الناس المسيطرة
،نتيجة الأمراض النفسية يلي بيرفض كل واحد فيكن يواجهها ونتيجة اعطاء الشرعية المطلقة والاسباب المبررة لقيم متل الطمع والجشع وتأليه السلطة والمال
.نتيجة اعطاء التلاعب صفة الذكاء والطعن بالظهر صفة القوة والعنفوان
.الحياة مش ظالمة وشوف شو حلوي الأماكن يلي فيها ناس حلوة من جوّا ومتصالحة مع نفسها
.شوف شو حلوة الاماكن الي فيها ناس بسيطة ما عندا اطماع وخلفيات وما عندا انعدام الامان الداخلي
.شوف شو حلوي العيشة مطرح ما القيم هيي العدل والاحترام وعدم الاستغلال، والتصالح مع الذات
.الحياة مش ظالمة بالعكس الحياة كتير عادلة وسواء بهيدي الدني او هيديك، رح تتفاجئوا قديش رح تكون عادلة، رح تتفاجئوا وقت الحصاد لأنكن مش منتبهين حتى شو عم تزرعوا
،مش ضروري تآمن بوجود الله ت تآمن بالسبب والنتيجة
،مش ضروري تآمن بالآخرة ويوم الحساب، بس ابسط شي تآمن انك رح تحصد يلي رح تزرعه
!ابسط شي تآمن انّو الجورة الّي بتحفرها ت غيرك يوقع فيها، ما رح تسلم منّا سواء انت او حدا عزيز عليك
.بس المشكل لمّا تنسى او تنكر انك حفرتا وترفض حتى تتعلم درسك. هون المشكل
،هوي مبدأ بسيط بالحياة، عيش وخلّي غيرك يعيش، ساعد لمّا تقدر، وإذا ما فيك تساعد عالقليلي زيح من الدرب وما تؤذي
.ما تخلقوا من صاحب الوجع وحش بدّو ينتقم لأنكن حطيتوا ملح عجروحه. ما تجرحوا شخص وبس ينزف تسألوه بخباثة شو صرلك؟ أو تدعّوا إنكن خايفين من الدم تتصيروا انتوا الضحية
،ما تجرّبوا بعض الناس وتمتحنوا قدرتهن عالإحتمال ودرجة تفهمّن وتراهنوا ع اخلاقن وتربيتن
،لأنو بس يبطّل بالن يطول وياخدوا قرار “بالتصعيد” بيروحوا في للآخر
،للآخر لدرجة ما بيهمن حتى يرجعوا ولا بأيا حالة يرجعوا، هيدا اذا فرضاً رجعوا
!وبالنسبة للتربية والأخلاق، بيحطّوا يلي تعلموا ع جنب وبيرتجلوا كرمال المناسبة وكرمالكن
،هيي مسألة وقت مش اكتر، ما تكبر الخسة براسكن، لأن نتيجة السبب اوقات كتير بتتأخر بس على طول بتوصل
،وللأسف بتوصل أوقات على ناس ما بتستاهل، بس غلطتها إنّا من صلبكن ومنكن
.غلطتها إنّا بحياة ناس عم تزرع قرف وكره ومتوقعة الزرع يزهّر حب وايام حلوة. ولأنكن ما بدكن تتعلموا الدرس الا بضربة قاضية
بتخافوا شو بدا تقول الناس ، بتخافوا من رأي فلان وعلتان، بتخافوا يكون حدا احسن منكن بمعايير تافهة وسطحية، بتخافوا كل شي إلّا من نتيجة اعمالكم، الا من العدالة سواء كانت إلهية أو عاقبة اخلاقية او نتيجة او قدر
،متل ما بدكن سموها
!بس نصيحة ما تتجاهلوها
“Justice does not come from the outside. It comes from inner peace”.
Indeed, but sometimes our inner peace can’t keep us safe from people that don’t have it or more unable to…
So very true and well said dear Koko! It is incredible how people can’t understand the Cause and Effect! Or some believe it simply doesn’t apply to them! But we should never forget that circumstances may change and they will change sooner or later!
Thank you dear 😊 yes I can’t understand it either especially when people are oblivious of this whole thing and they are making this world a very hard place to live in…I wish you are having a good week 😊💕
Agree Huguette! I don’t believe in God, but can’t deny the fact he exist either or something more powerful than all of us do exist call it nature, god, space, atoms whatever. Whatever happens whatever you do, Karma is there. I see karma as a reflection of our actions. What you sow is what you reap. You have said it in the best words and with best tones and grammar. I needed this too. I’m feeling better ❤️. Have a great Month ahead 💐
Thank you dear Simon for passing by and sorry for the late response. Appreciate your kind and motivational words, and m happy you can relate! I hope you are well and things are better for you 🙏🙂💕