Random Feelings – Walking Away

Sometimes when you wish badly to walk away from a place or people, it’s not because you hate them (even if you think you do),

But because you feel so overwhelmed, so exhausted and drained!
And you don’t want to lose the ability to love them again.

Written in 2012 – Published on January 4th 2019 and re-blogged today

Huguette Antoun – August 22nd 2019

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  1. Hi Huguette, Tats a good thing being a Senior blogger. We can reblog old posts.

    This is a post yes a post of feelings and i respect it. Yes i had such feeling too. Next time i standup on that foggy road ill use these post to express my feeling. Well expressed ✨🤗

  2. Hey!!
    How are you?…..? 🤗🤗 and Yes! Huguette you are absolutely right.
    You know We should think about these little things in our life.
    I really love reading the random feeling and thoughts of others.
    You know what when I got any random thought in my mind that I need to be noted down what I do I penned down in notes on my phone.
    After sometime when I read those thoughts I feel really great ❤❤❤
    Thanks, Sweetheart for sharing lovely feelings.
    I really loved it.

  3. And now that I have cleared my doubts, here I am 🙂
    Will be morning soon, so I wish you a goooooood morning! 🙂
    I love everything of the first picture 🙂 I’m finding myself doing this every time I have the chance to go to the beach 🙂 and I love the dress and the hair of the lady 🙂
    Yes, I guess sometimes is better to put a distance between you and what ever is happening around you and find some time for yourself…To recharge and regain that confidence! And people who are around you and care about you, will know you need to do it not because you hate them, but because you need to!
    Always remember that YOU are important too! I know you tend to forget it as you’re too concerned about the others 🙂
    You know a funny thing I saw this morning on my way to work? A lady in front of me had a t-shirt with: Life’s too short to eat bad food 🙂
    Friday is here, weekend is almost here! Wish you a wonderful and happy and positive day! 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • Good afternoon to you 😊 yes doubts were cleared huh?
      Glad you loved the picture, I found it so perfect as well 😊
      You know I really love myself and I always struggle to do what I want and what makes me happy, and believe me I live my life day by day and I enjoy the moment I’m in without ruining it with thoughts like why I’m here and stuff! I make jokes and I love to see people laugh on them even if I’m sad some days I also fight that BUT (you know the but hahhaa)
      There are some things that can’t be mentioned as is sometimes and these things are bigger than we are showing them so this is what make us sad…because I’m the kind of person that don’t nag about the problem, I move to the “search for solution mode” unless there’s no acceptable solution…So we go to plan B and C and D but there’s always be something missing…Hope I clarified a bit the feeling and situation 🙂
      hahah life is too short to eat bad food and to even frown 😀 funny shirt! You know I always believe that there should be refund for calories when the food is bad 😀 So unfair! I could have eaten 1 jar of Nutella instead 😂😂😂
      Appreciate these lovely words here and there as well, you are too kind and caring and I do appreciate that a lot!!
      Have a great day / afternoon / weekend and have so much food and wine for me 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗❤❤❤❤❤

      • Yes, doubts cleared 🙂
        You start from a very valid point: you love yourself and try to do what makes you happy! This is a good start 🙂
        As we always say, life has ups and downs and when we have these downs that is important to remember our valid points! I know is not easy and will never be! We cannot fool ourselves!
        You’ll see that plan A or B or C or D will work! Important is to always have the plan 🙂
        Refund for calories when the food is bad 🙂 Oh this is great! Really! Not a bad idea! 😂😂😂
        Food and wine also for you then! And you do the same for me 🙂
        🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗❤❤❤❤❤

      • Yes it was never easy 🙂 I always learned the hard way anyway! Thank you dear Riby for the constant reminder 😊 you know the donkey story right?😂😂
        Oh yes I need to give back the calories I spent on horrible food 😂😂😂😂 Unfair!
        Yes of course I will! I will send you a sample of what I will eat hahaha 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗❤❤❤❤❤

      • Never easy but you never gave up and today you are who you are and can be very proud of yourself!
        Yep, I know the donkey story so I’ll keep pushing 😂🤪😂🤪 until you’ll ignore me 🤪🤪🤪 nope…I hope that will not happen 🤪🤪
        Unfair true! And beside the calories you need to receive back also the money! 🤪
        Great! I’ll taste some Lebanese food this weekend 😋🤪
        Thank you 🤗🤗🧸🧸🧸💕💕🥂🥂

      • Thank you dear for the lovely statement 😊😊🤗 oh no I won’t ignore you, will not happen 😊😊
        Hahah if we could also have the money well it’s great!! 😁
        Oh there will be some Lebanese also hahah
        🤗🤗🤗💕💕🧸🧸🧸🥂🥂

  4. Walking away is one of the best things you can do for your well-being, and also one of the most emotionally painful things. I had to walk away from friends who I was very close to at one point in my life, because they became too toxic. Truth is, they were always toxic but I was too blind to see it for myself until I started accomplishing things in life and they didn’t support me. It got to the point where I had to cut the rope because I was drained, tired, and exhausted from all of the drama. Once I walked away, my world became peaceful. Too peaceful. ✌💕

    I may not have a girl clan anymore but I stand up tall with my head held high and keep moving forward. Life must go on. Friends/people/family/acquaintances are like a bag of cherries. Some are sweet, some are sour, and some are just rotten. Throw the rotten ones out. 🍒🍒

  5. True for me too, Huguette. I try to keep a safe distance from all the relations and friends, not to avoid or hurt anyone, but just to be in the safe zone of not being wounded badly from them. As the previous comment suggests, rotten cherries should be picked out of the coterie and thrown away for good. Do put a big. fat full stop after those repellents.. 🙂

    • Thank you Deepa 🙂 I do the same as you but I have learned that being hurt is a part of the game of being humans and having feelings, I keep my distance but I also try to not become careless and cold…
      I’m so selective anyway in my life and I learned the hard way that people will never treat you the same as you treat them and I just let go, do good and move without expecting anything at all, because expecting is what hurt us, not the people…
      Thank you Deepa for your valuable words and time 😊

  6. Wow, Huguette. This is so good. This sums up my feelings as well in many incidents. This is as if you have given words to my feelings and of many more I am sure.
    Sometimes though it’s required for us to walk away to maintain peace😌

  7. So agree with you dear Huguette. Some relationships drain more of your cup than filling it. Better to acknowledge that and walk away. Much love your way!

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