Our Happy Ending

Hello dear readers and hope you are all good and you didn’t miss me so much 😊😊
Since I’m still not completely back, I decided to revive some old posts that were published the time I had 2 followers or so, the posts quality was different as well but hope you will enjoy the old posts until I have time to prepare some good new post 😊
Have a great Sunday 😊

Huguette Antoun

We live our life hoping that a day will come and we’ll no longer feel pain, we will find happiness, love, we will no longer cry silently….we will have our happy ending and for once everything will be perfect and finally we will experience serenity….But the thing that we remain unhappy but we don’t talk about it anymore

We feel pain but nobody knows, we hide our feelings perfectly and we restrain our emotions, our anger and all kind of feelings: heartbreaking, jealousy,pain in the chest, agony, disappointment, rejection, loneliness, confusion….feeling helpless, empty, useless, vulnerable, miserable….etc

We keep feeling some or all this but we make sure nobody knows…this is the only thing that changes! We bury everything deep down inside, we smile and pretend we really reached our happy ending

Written in September 2017

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  1. Hey Huguette! πŸ€—In the end it’s all about how well people pretended isnt it ✨ Such a deep message. Thanks for reblogging this today☺️. Hope you are having a beautiful Sunday βœ¨πŸ€—

      • Hope you will have a great Monday then 😊 It’s good to start the week always with positivity, we’re on Public holiday due to Adha occasion so we’ll be back to work on Wednesday πŸ™‚

      • Wow😍 Tats great…. πŸ˜ƒ Wait.. what😲. i smell a fried prawn some where πŸ€”.. oh tats my guts πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ha ha … Happy Eid AL Adha✨ Enjoy the Holidays ..βœ¨πŸ™‚

      • well we ate shrimps today but they were not fried, just boiled and with sauce, it’e healthier, the smell must have crossed the borders to IndiaπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ Thank you Simon for your wishes 😊

  2. Hello Hugette! I hope you are well !
    When we first met, I had to leave early, and when I returned you weren’t there. But well, since you are “partially” back, and I am too, I wanted to pop a greeting… How are you? πŸ˜ƒ

    • Hello Sophie πŸ™‚ I’m doing well thank you, hope you are good too! Yes was on vacation and trying to be back completely, appreciate your greeting and kind interaction πŸ™‚ Hope all is well at your end

      • Oh yes…! I had my exams. Till now, 8.5/10 in one and 10/10 in rest. πŸ˜ƒβœ¨ I am more than happy! And now I can return to blogging in peace… πŸ’•
        Where have you been for vacation?

      • oh this is great! You seem some little genius student πŸ™‚ sure you will be happy! Congratulations for these grades πŸ‘ŒπŸ˜Š
        Was in Istanbul, Turkey and it was great as well 😊

      • Genius… well that’s a great compliment, thank you! But well, I doubt it πŸ™‚
        Thank you so much! Did you like Turkey? You already know Arabic so I guess, you had quite an advantage πŸ™‚ Or do they people there understand only Turkish language?

      • Well don’t doubt it and you can be anything πŸ™‚
        Yes it’s not the first time since we don’t need a visa so we always go, actually recently they started to hire people speaking Arabic because too many Arab tourists but most Turkish speak only Turkish, not even English and they are not helpful at all even in the most touristic places, we had to so lot of research and be prepared.
        Mostly they are rude and they hardly smile, but there are some exceptions of course πŸ™‚
        But they have a great country and it was really great

      • Oh, I see. If we ever go to Turkey, I would remember your words. Thank you so much for letting me know!
        Well, many communities aren’t that friendly. Was it very hot and humid there?

      • Yes they don’t really care even if there are millions of tourists!
        It was hot in the sun but with a cold air as well, no humidity which is great and at night a bit cold but lovely 😊

      • That’s for sure, great country and great history but people not helpful at all, I read an article for a famous Turkish writer that most people are against opening the country like that to everyone…And their salaries are so low so they are not happy and Ataturk made them fanatic for their language I guess, the spoke Arabic before Ataturk
        My pleasure πŸ™‚

  3. Hey you’re half-back I guess. How’s vacation going?
    Very interesting post. I’ve seen people who don’t long for happy ending though. Some just want an “ending”. But the thought is interesting.

    We bury them down, our feelings. πŸ’”πŸ’” πŸ₯Ί. That was soo touchable(?πŸ˜‚)

  4. Hi Huguette! Nice to have you even partly back, missed you last week for sure. Great post and so true. We all too often try to bury our feelings and pretend, I know I do that, even now.πŸ˜• Sometimes though I think that is the wrong way to do things and it can hurt us more than if we let our feelings show. But generally people don’t want to see that, so we hide them. Hope we will get to see some pictures from your vacation!πŸ“· Have a great evening!!πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ΊπŸŒžπŸŒ³

    • Thank you Steve for reading and for the lovely interaction 😊 well I know it’s wrong but believe me nothing to do, we can’t keep suffering unless we really reached this point of happiness inside, as you said it can hurt more if we show feelings that nobody cares about actually
      I will try to work on a post and post pictures hopefully after the few posts I’m working on and the few awards 😊
      Hope you will be having a great Monday 🌞🌞😸😸

      • Hi Huguette! Another beautiful sunny morning though cool, only 10, but clouds and rain are coming later. We do need some rain though it is very dry here once again and we don’t want any forest fires to start close by.😲 Sounds like you will be busy with posts!πŸ˜„ I should be able to finish up my awards this week,😺 unless I get more. It’s a great start to my day,🌞 hope your day is going well too, I guess you have an extra holiday today which is always nice!😁😸🌞🌳

      • Great I still can hear the world sunny 🌞 Rain is good of course as long as the sun will come back a bit!
        Oh well I need to post something different than awards! /lately I’ve been taken by all these awards and they take lot of time, and worst thing that the person who nominates me doesn’t bother to read!
        Anyway my day is great. hope yours is great as well 😁😸🌞 Oh yes who doesn’t love holiday! It’s really great haha 😁😸😸

      • True enough, awards do take a lot of time!πŸ€ͺI do enjoy them though.πŸ˜€ Oddly, your award posts are the only ones that show up in my reader, your regular posts never do. Don’t know why that is.πŸ€” Oh well, others still enjoy reading the awards anyway. I’m sure you probably have something posted today so I will be by to check. Glad your day has been a good one!πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ΊπŸŒžπŸŒ³πŸΏ

      • I used to enjoy them as well but now I’m not so sure about it πŸ™‚
        I usually have notification from some specific bloggers, I rarely check the reader actuallyπŸ™„
        Have a great day ahead πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ΊπŸŒž

      • Yes, I know, I do enjoy the awards, but I have also been getting so many negative comments about them lately. It takes too long to get it done is a common complaint. Or I should never be humorous with them. Get Muffin out.😿 And a couple others I won’t repeat. Because of that I have been thinking of stopping awards completely. But I have been getting a lot of negative feedback lately anyway, think I mentioned that before. More since Ilona left.πŸ˜• How can people blame me for that?πŸ€” Oh well, the joys of blogging I guess.πŸ˜‚

      • They are blaming you cause Ilona left? Oh this is so new!
        I’m really surprised why people drop negative comments :/ who’s forcing them to read? it’s so weird, I say you need to focus on your readers and supporters and drop the rest
        We are whom we are and each one has a style I guess and way to write and deal with things

      • Amazing, isn’t it? I certainly had nothing to do with that, I actually tried to talk her out of it at first until I saw it would be best for her to stop. Yes, I have dropped several already, told some to leave and blocked a couple. I’m tempted to start naming these people so everyone knows who they are, otherwise they might try this on other bloggers too. I don’t mind criticism properly given, but when people demand I do something (and they have) that just doesn’t sit well. And when they start trashing my blog and get to name calling, that definitely crosses a line. I better stop. But I have so many good readers and supporters it makes it all worthwhile to keep writing. When I started my blog it was to give people a smile and maybe even a laugh, I think we need more of that these days. And I do have some serious posts now and then.πŸ˜€πŸ˜Ί

      • I say you publish names and screen shots as well! I would have done that! I actually did with those mass and comment likers! I didn’t care at all :/
        It certainly not acceptable at all! They just need to stop visiting, so simple! what’s wrong with people! I block people for less behavior actually!
        Whatever you decide, it’s your blog and you’re free to write whatever you want and the way you want as I believe, I don’t mind some advice given out of care and nicely, otherwise even criticism is not allowed! There’s a difference between criticism and advice and people should start to tell the difference 🌞

      • Screen shots, hmm, not a bad thought.πŸ€”πŸ‘ Yes, advice over criticism for sure, and even there it needs to be done the right way. I have a few readers who don’t have blogs and they like to tell me how and what to write and I have told them to start their own blog, then they can write what they want.πŸ˜€ But they don’t want to do that.πŸ€” Strange people.πŸ˜‚

      • This is what you should do and let the people read and say what they think about such disrespect!
        Strange people indeed! They don’t want to start a blog but they want to tell people what to do πŸ˜•πŸ˜•
        Hope your Tuesday will be great 🌞😸

      • Hi Huguette! Cloudy this morning but supposed to clear this afternoon. So might not be a good picture day,πŸ“·πŸ˜• however I have lots of other things to do today anyway.πŸ˜€ Hope you are having a great day!πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ΊπŸŒžπŸŒ³

      • I’m sure you do! It’s an opportunity I guess to do other things 🌞🌞 Thank you so much and enjoy your day 😺😸🌞

  5. True! I think this is what being mature is, hiding and burying your feelings.. Happy Ending very apt title for the post. Its ending of our true soul.. ..
    Hope your vacations are going superb..When are you coming back…fullyπŸ˜ƒ?

  6. We bury everything deep down inside then smile and pretend we reached our happy ending! I love these words too!
    Huguette your earlier post was very informative! πŸ˜ŠπŸ’•

  7. Eid Adha mubarak and happy holidays you lucky meanie! This was written two years ago? I’ll post some writing from two years ago dedicated to you Huguette and you’ll see the difference in quality πŸ˜‚

  8. Hey, Huguette it is great to see you again.πŸ₯°β€οΈ You shared your old posts. It’s really great. Yeah, how much we try, we never find time to go back even to our own old posts. You reposted it and that’s really good. I don’t know about others, but I really missed you. Your words… your presence..and all. I am not saying it for fascinating you. Those lines..”We bury everything deep down inside, we smile and pretend we really reached our happy ending”.. that’s beautiful. Very happy that I had a chance to read this one.πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ŠπŸ’–πŸ‘

    • Hello dear Tushara and thank you for this warm welcome message πŸ₯° oh yes I’m sure it’s from the heart so don’t worry at all 😊 I missed you as well and your words are so highly appreciated πŸ™πŸ˜Šβ€
      I will re-post more to give them their proper right since at the times I had no followers..
      Glad you loved these lines, it’s exactly how it feels actually and so happy as well to see you here πŸ˜ŠπŸ’–

  9. Hello my friend.
    I always read your posts with great curiosity, I am glad I could read this❀️
    I smile to you right now, because you are you.
    I hope you are doing well❀️

  10. I hope nobody is doing this! Hiding from reality isn’t life! Hiding from ourself is not life either! Life means ups and downs, sadness but also happiness, sometimes we cry, sometimes we laugh, sometimes is difficult and sometimes is going smooth…feelings are changing, mood is changing, everything is changing pretty often, but important is to always try to stay positive and happy! Really happy and not just faking it πŸ˜πŸ˜‰ I know is not easy but we can do it! πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸŒΈπŸŒΈπŸ§ΈπŸ§ΈπŸ§Έ

    • Thank you dear Riby and you know my opinion on this but this was written after a specific feeling and time and many people live like that even if they know how life works, when something is missing, they have to cope and bury some things inside no matter how honest they are you see? I agree of course about staying positive and try to be happy but some feelings are not understood by many because they never felt them before that’s it πŸ™‚
      Thank you for your time to read and for this kind interaction πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ§ΈπŸ§Έ countdown is shorter this week haha already 2 days down 😁😝

      • Yes, I know, even if we know how life works, even if we know that we should not waste any second of it, sometimes we just can’t help it…πŸ™ˆ because we are human, sometimes are overwhelmed! However, I think is important to be honest with ourselves and always finding reasons to bring out our happiness as well as our sorrows….just keeping them inside ourselves, most of the time, we don’t resolve anything…I know some may not understand us but we can also discover people alike…😊
        Always a pleasure πŸŒΊπŸŒΊπŸŒΈπŸŒΈπŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ€—πŸ€—
        Have a wonderful afternoon my dear! πŸ§ΈπŸ§ΈπŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

      • The odds of being human beings right? πŸ™„
        you are right, we should be honest that’s for sure and act accordingly
        Of course there are always be people who understand us without even speaking πŸ™‚
        Have a good night for now πŸ§ΈπŸ§ΈπŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

  11. Hi dear Huguette β€οΈπŸ’•
    Γ€nd don’t you dare to think that I am not missing you!! Are your vacation over?? Waiting to see a post on your vacation!
    Such a deep message!! We all often try to bury our feelings and pretend..
    😊

    • Thank you so much dear Jyoti 😊 you’re so kind!
      Yes it’s over but I was back and we had Adha holiday so all will end today and tomorrow back to normal
      Happy you loved it and hope all is good at your end πŸ˜ŠπŸ’•

  12. Hard to imagine you with only 2 followers haha πŸ˜€

    It’s a nice essay Hug. And so true. The problem with burying everything deep down is that there will be a day when everything will resurface and when it does, it might flood out like a lava from a volcano eruption.

    Hiding our feelings is probably one of the most terrible act of self cruelty.

    • I was actually with 0 followers blogging alone haha thinking it’s even blogging 😁
      You’re probably right about this volcano eruption
      What I wanted to say from this post mainly, the feeling we have when we don’t reach the happy ending we wished to have someday especially after we suffered a lot and we just can’t keep nagging and being unhappy so we bury the disappointment and sadness because we had enough
      But in general I’m not with feelings repression because it’s not healthy

      • Agree completely. Emotional health is just as important as physical.
        When I restarted my blog, it actually took me a few weeks of feeling in the dark before haha πŸ˜€ I got my first follow after 6 weeks and I was like… I’m doomed, no one likes what I write. Haha πŸ˜€

      • Hahaa Yes felt the same at some point
        The key is interacting actually and when I started to read for others , many started to ready work and vis versa

      • What goes around comes around… maybe not the right saying because it’s normally for negative use, but I think it can apply for positive too.

    • Thank you AL for visiting after you’re back πŸ™‚ appreciate your time and sharing your thoughts πŸ‘ yes sometimes they push up to blog and express

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