Practice What You Preach Or Change Your Speech
Sentences like: who do you think you are? You think you’re so beautiful, good-looking, you’re arrogant, you’re so proud, you’re selfish, you’re heartless, you’re cruel etc.., to someone that doesn’t like you or love you back or doesn’t want to be a part of your life…nagging everyone about it and judging people based on it, is usually hypocrisy and double standards! Why?
Because these same people that are muttering the above mentioned sentences, are bragging in front of their friends and acquaintances that this girl or that guy is dying to be with them, texting and calling and chasing… BUT: they are not interested! They say it with a smirk on their faces; they can’t hide how cocksure they are!
You should really focus and stop nagging unless you are willing to be with the person that you don’t like back. I mean what’s wrong with them huh?
Life is harder when you’re a double standard person, when you’re unable to switch roles for one second! No offense, I respect all people and you’re free to love whomever you want without any exception! Unrequited care, love, crush, friendship, etc… If it’s your choice, you are free!
But you are not free to attack people because it’s not mutual… I just strongly believe that you should “Practice what you preach or change your speech” as simple as that.
All these people you are attacking, they do have a heart but it’s not yours! Or they are unable to love; unable to care so how you force them to? They have their own demons and issues, their own stories and disappointments; sometimes they are even unable to love themselves!
Therefore, easy with your judgments, it’s really not about you; it’s always about the other party.
If you’re unable to see it this way, just force yourself to love someone that means nothing to you or tell me how it feels when they force you to and they blame you as well, and then you will understand.
What are your thoughts regarding this subject? What’s your point of view?
H.A – January 24th 2019